The episode subject this week is most beneficial gender extremely our company is writing about⦠ideal sex we have now had! We are joined by Autostraddle author, poet, and journalist Dani Janae as we get into some steamy anecdotes with an in-depth discussion about what tends to make great gender quality. And in addition we spend a lot of the time back at my sexual hang ups that I could or may not have actually accomplished many run come early july!
Arrive for lesbian movie-themed online game, stay the coming.
SHOW NOTES
+
The 200 Finest Lesbian+ Videos record
that Christina pulled the overall game from.
+ If you haven’t read Dani’s
Structure of a Mango
show you probably must.
+
This is the article
We had written concerning the person We talk about regarding the event. It really is merely already been two years but plenty changed!
+ The summer has gone by therefore however stan Olivia Rodrigo. See the
“intense” music movie
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Dani:
The cat as well as the puppy were into the room so there had been cat-and-dog hair every-where. And therefore, I was surely having an allergic reaction while we happened to be having sex. But the orgasm was like cook’s hug. It had been an ideal, great experience actually.
Christina:
We question whether or not it’s something regarding the hives that basically included somewhat
je ne sais quoi
to this orgasmic experience.
Theme track plays
Drew:
Introducing
Hold off, Is It a Date?
Christina:
Wait, Is This a night out together?
is actually an Autostraddle podcast exactly about, you guessed it, online dating.
Drew:
Yay! I Favor dating. I’m Drew Gregory. I’m an author for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and simply general trans gay individual across the internet and⦠I became browsing state world, but it’s actually similar to Los Angeles and nyc.
Christina:
I favor this globe-trotting gay personality you are accepting below in 2021.
Drew:
I’d like that. Yeah, it’s for the future.
Christina:
Yeah. I’m the additional variety, Christina Tucker, also an author for Autostraddle, deranged loud homosexual on the internet. Simply variety of away here, authorship, getting homosexual, undertaking that which we can every minute to try to function with this life we’re living.
Drew:
You’re really carrying it out. You’re actually functioning throughout that existence.
Christina:
Frankly, its all i will carry out. That’s all You will find, it’s the only option.
Drew:
I really admire the effort.
Christina:
The make an effort to live?
Drew:
Yeah.
Christina:
Yeah. In fact, truly daring of me to also attempt it. You’re not wrong, you aren’t incorrect. Is it possible you want to consider playing a tiny bit video game now, Drew?
Drew:
Oh my personal Jesus, I’m thus excited. Cannot wait observe that which you have actually personally.
Christina:
I’m therefore grateful you asserted that since you positively have to say yes, because that’s section of this price we’ve developed right here. So you might be familiar with the fact that on autostraddle.com, the web site, we have a list of 200 lesbian flicks.
Drew:
I realize from it. I might have written it.
Christina:
You may have. The thing I have done is actually draw a selection of 10 of those films. I have held them to the top 50. I will give you the plot keywords and phrases as decided by consumers on IMDb and you are gonna have to do you know what movie it is.
Drew:
Okay. I just desire the audience, wherever you’re, to understand that I’m not planning to pull-up record. In my opinion you got that right, am We let’s assume that’s correct in how I must be respecting this video game?
Christina:
In my opinion which is really respectful and I believe’s reasonable. I also style of rely on this particular is going be something that one thinks of rather easy for you, I didn’t go also remaining.
Drew:
I’ve a dreadful memory, but yes, i will just be sure to set men and women up for reduced objectives.
Christina:
Fair enough.
Drew:
Anytime i really do really well, its love type blow all of them out, of course Really don’t do well, are going to like, “Well, she talked about⦔ Anyways, continue. Let us begin this.
Christina:
Let’s beginning. I’ll begin with pretty general ones and I gets more certain while we go, because many are virtually precisely what the movie is during two words. Therefore we’re going to just be sure to focus on a wider experience here.
Drew:
Everyone loves it.
Christina:
Our very own very first movie: medications may be the first land phrase. Manhattan, new york will be the next. Hate crime could be the third.
Drew:
Okay.
It Really Is All-around Me.
Christina:
Yes, truly! See, we understood you will be able to do this.
Drew:
Great.
Christina:
We definitely realized you’d be able to perform this.
Drew:
Also, i simply must let men and women know that that’s one of the most underrated lesbian films, and you really should find it. And Leisha Hailey where movie might my personal phone background for one or two years now. Thus simply a fun little fact indeed there regarding people.
Christina:
We love that. All right, motion picture number two. “unidentified daddy,” organ donor, cemetery, loss of son. Oh, she’s thinking.
Drew:
I’m like i will positively have this according to â delay, unknown grandfather, death of daughter, body organ donor. Oh,
About My Mama.
Christina:
Here it really is, see.
Drew:
Someone else of my favorites.
Christina:
It is extremely thrilling observe the things which men and women choose are a plot keyword that they need to take from these movies. I am also maybe not checking out any of the ones which are just lesbian because that seems a lot like a gimme.
Drew:
That is the way I assembled a lot of the listing because if you appear up lesbian movies, what you discovered had been the outdated Autostraddle record or some listings which are not really detailed, therefore I would in fact browse through databases from the keywords and phrases of lesbian, lesbian kissing, this stuff like girls kissing, these items, and discover films in which they’re not thought of as a lesbian flick because they’re a little more interesting, or just slightly much less immediate, and that’s how I discovered some of the motion pictures which can be today regarding the number, so full circle.
Christina:
Listen, IMDb keywords arriving helpful for everybody always. This 1, men and women went crazy on this one. Thus merely likely to study some arbitrary terms to you personally. Hey, whistling, lady, black sports bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, on the job accident.
Drew:
On the job accident? Oh, I Was Thinking I Experienced it following, reallyâ
Christina:
Cool, in parentheses, the heat.
Drew:
Due to the fact initially I was planning to state
Foxfire,
but the at work crash changed myself upwards. At work crash.
Christina:
Do you want more?
Drew:
Yeah.
Christina:
Pickup truck crashes through a fence.
Drew:
Can it be
Miseducation of Cameron Post?
Christina:
It isn’t.
Drew:
Because at work collision was a really dreadful method of explaining any particular one of this homosexual because you’re trying to become not gayness, attempts to mutilate on their own or does mutilate on their own. That’d end up being rather extreme, but I didn’t know together with the IMDb thinkers. Okay, hold off, this is exactly tricking myself upwards.
Christina:
Do you need even more from myself?
Drew:
Vehicle through a fence. I’m certain it really is something that I’m simply not⦠Yeah, carry on.
Christina:
Reference to a college mortgage. Normally so peanuts.
Drew:
Hold off, maybe you’ve viewed this flick?
Christina:
I have seen this motion picture.
Drew:
Is it wild that I’m not getting hired?
Christina:
It is a tiny bit untamed. I will present a year, if you want per year.
Drew:
Should you provide me a-year, We’ll surely get it.
Christina:
Okay. 2016 is your year.
Drew:
2016. Okay, let me know the goals.
Christina:
It is the film,
Particular Females,
2016.
Drew:
Oh! Yeah.
Christina:
I absolutely believed pickup collisions through a fence would produce, but In addition merely love these people just pulling-out nouns and simply getting like, “male.” Is what you think?
Drew:
Yeah.
Christina:
Okay.
Drew:
Which is outstanding movie. I have to observe that again.
Christina:
Truly. It is the film.
Drew:
Yeah, its a really great movie.
Christina:
All right, our then film. Kissing whilst having sex.
Drew:
The most effective sort of both, maybe, somehow.
Christina:
Attraction, dude ranch.
Drew:
Could it be
Desert Hearts?
Christina:
Yeah. So I was actually like, “Okay, you have receive that then one.” Another one I was planning give you ended up being â “nipples” ended up being the really conspicuously showcased. And that I ended up being like, “Sure, this is certainly section of that movie.”
Drew:
God,
Desert Hearts.
You know how absolutely these frustrating people out there trying to end up being Shane. Sorry, What i’m saying is, if you should be trying to end up being Shane, I take you. But myself, my personal annoying thing is I’m attempting to be Cay. Cay because movie is much like that is who In my opinion of because particular lesbian that I would like to end up being.
Christina:
Yeah, that is true, can confirm. Fine, tend to be we ready for our then any?
Drew:
Yeah.
Christina:
12 Monthsâ
Drew:
Hold off, no, You will find one more thing to say about
Desert Hearts.
Christina:
Certain.
Drew:
After the final time we re-watched it across summer, it sort of delivered me into a slight spiral, and that I texted this older semi-closeted individual who I experienced kind of started tentatively planning to big date or time whatever, and who’d vanished for a month, and I had abadndoned because Really don’t ask people to date me. But I just was actually love, “Okay.” I watched
Desert Hearts
and I was actually love, “I guess possibly often people have their own internalized whatever.” And I also texted the lady and that I mentioned, “Whenever we never ever meet, I think you will regret it.” Therefore we performed meet, to ensure’s just what
Desert Hearts
can create for your requirements.
Christina:
Wow, that is an extremely strong recommendation.
Drew:
We probably should not have satisfied. We probably need only allow it end up being. But anyways, moving on, subsequent flick.
Christina:
Our next movie, metaphysics, scene during orifice credits â just what meaning, it is for you to decide â high school soccer, Chicago, Illinois.
Drew:
Oh,
Princess Cyd.
Christina:
There you choose to go.
Drew:
That’s another great flick. I prefer that We hold being amazed from this list that I experienced a tremendously powerful hand in positioning. It isn’t really my ranking, but I did have a large say when you look at the position and I also think itâs great.
Christina:
Yeah. I recently wish to be clear to you personally and our listeners â once more, We selected from the top 50, so these are typically really good types. Of great ones, these are great types. I Understand Drewwill constantly state this can be a good film after each and every one, butâ
Drew:
They may be great flicks, you guys should enjoy all of them.
Christina:
Fine. Small dress with heels.
Drew:
Like it.
Christina:
Cock blocked, mini skirt with shoes.
Drew:
I am talking about, can it be
Blockers?
Christina:
It isn’t. That might be as well simple, i believe, for
Blockers.
Drew:
I Really Don’t keep in mind any miniskirts, butâ
Christina:
Feminine back nudity.
Drew:
Okay. Hold off an extra. Okay, exactly what the next. Okay, penis blocked, mini skirt, feminine backside nudity.
Christina:
Mm-hmm (affirmative). Split dancing.
Drew:
Is-it
Certain?
Christina:
It isn’t.
Drew:
No, i’d love a break dancing scene.
Christina:
I favor some slack dancing world in
Certain.
Drew:
Some slack moving scene.
Christina:
I’ll offer you: English woman abroad.
Drew:
English lady overseas? This is a different one where I feel I definitely should get it.
Christina:
I’ll need to provide you with a fairly evident any eventually, to ensureshould help.
Drew:
Okay, give me an evident one.
Christina:
Undercover broker.
Drew:
Would it be
D.E.B.S?
Christina:
It is really not
D.E.B.S.
It’s next to
D.E.B.S.,
particular movie smart. Discover another, intrigue.
Drew:
Okay, hold off, there’s not a large number of genre flicks.
Christina:
You can findn’t, that is true.
Drew:
Undercover broker. Really, possibly they are making use of the term, can it be
The Handmaiden?
Christina:
It is far from.
Drew:
Okay, I didn’t think so. Undercover representative.
Christina:
Would you like your own year?
Drew:
I thought that⦠Positive.
Christina:
Your 12 months is 2017.
Drew:
Undercover representative.
Christina:
I’m very sorry. You’re going to feel very stupid once I state the concept of the one.
Drew:
Oh no.
Christina:
I’m actually sorry about that, but that’s kind of just the method the cookie crumbles.
Drew:
Oh, it is
Carol.
Christina:
No, it isn’t really
Carol.
Drew:
No, it states 2015.
Christina:
Yes, I Am Aware that. It isn’t
Carol.
Drew:
But there is an undercover â the guy, that is where I was considering. Okay, what exactly is it? Why does it create me feel stupid?
Christina:
Its
Atomic Blonde,
you dummy.
Drew:
Oh, that’s inside the leading 50?
Christina:
Truly. I’m sure.
Drew:
Oh, okay.
Christina:
Fine. We’ve got four more, you ready?
Drew:
I really don’t believe that foolish because that one I⦠I mean, i believe
Atomic Blonde
is fun, but I really don’t imagine it’s great. That would not inside my individual very top 50. I do want the whole world to know that I’m sure that
Carol
arrived on the scene in 2015. My mind harm. I simply desire the entire world to know that. Anyways, carry on.
Christina:
The planet today understands that, the record happens to be shown. All righty: bistro, sense of scent, novelist, mention of a hamburger, mention of Larry King, considering memoir, alcoholic, theft, girl wears glasses, residing alone, destroying research.
Drew:
The mention of the Larry King is actuallyâ
Christina:
It is a truly odd one.
Drew:
Mention of Larry King, ruining proof.
Christina:
Cat.
Drew:
Oh, could it be
Could You Actually Forgive Me Personally?
Christina:
Really.
Drew:
I had to develop to redeem my self. I became actually in a slump indeed there.
Christina:
You nailed it. I do believe you got there, I think you completely got here. All right, three even more, our very own leading three. I do believe these people is simple for you because i am aware you.
Drew:
Great, okay, reallyâ¦
Christina:
I’m sure, but I’m stating, do you want?
Drew:
Okay, yeah.
Christina:
Mental health, medicine overdose.
Drew:
Will it be
Foxfire?
Christina:
No. Photographer.
Drew:
Oh,
Greater.
Christina:
There we go. Tattoo, lady group.
Drew:
Is this
Foxfire?
Christina:
Yeah.
Drew:
Oh, I’m sure
Foxfire.
Christina:
I happened to be like, “Oh, she’s going to merely hold speculating
Foxfire
until I just give her
Foxfire.”
Drew:
The trick is the fact that I favor
Foxfire
and I also keep willing to consider
Foxfire.
Christina:
After all, whomst among us?
Drew:
Angelina Jolie, gosh.
Christina:
Okay. That One, one of those is actuallyâ
Drew:
This is the last one?
Christina:
This is basically the last one. This is our final any. Church, denial, family members relationships.
Drew:
Could it possibly be
Miseducation of Cameron Post?
Christina:
It isn’t really.
Drew:
Can it be
But I Am a Cheerleader?
Christina:
Its, yes.
Drew:
Indeed. Comedic
Miseducation of Cameron Post.
Christina:
Jokes on laughs. In order for ended up being the video game i am calling, How Well really does Drew Know Lesbian films???
Drew:
I adore how good we have been creating brands for the video games.
Christina:
Yeah, is in reality mortifying that we also had written that inside subject of a Bing Doc, that was we thinking? It doesn’t even look really good within my Google Docs.
Drew:
I had a great time and I’m truly glad that i got eventually to tell the listeners about all the motion pictures that they should enjoy. And we also’ll put the listing into the show records.
Christina:
Positively.
Drew:
I’d point out that the list is currently at someplace where i believe you might get something away from watching all 200 motion pictures. Initial version of record, there clearly was some stuff on there that I happened to be not very pleased with. There still is items that I think that Really don’t directly but I think that all together, there’s a certain quality control after this latest upgrade that personally i think very pleased with and that I think they may be all worth witnessing.
Christina:
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